Expectations are the problem. We have great expectations for our lives that are all based on falsehoods, lies, and purposeful deceptions. There is only one expectation that is real: Jesus' return.
So long as our lives are focused clearly on Jesus, all is well. He will come back for us, and make all of this that makes no sense unimportant and irrelevant.
But we are not focused on Jesus. Not really. Not even those of us who want to be. We are focused instead on the treadmill of life, the drama, the hang ups, and the disappointments. All of which are avoidable.
Christmas isn't about Christ; it's about consumerism dressed up as good will towards men. Christmas is on Sunday this year. How many will go to church?
I suppose I am a cynic. Credit it to my own missed expectations. But through my failures I fully recognize my need for Grace. And I thank God that his offer is free and everlasting.
“Behold, my eye has seen all this,
my ear has heard and understood it.
What you know, I also know;
I am not inferior to you.
But I would speak to the Almighty,
and I desire to argue my case with God.
As for you, you whitewash with lies;
worthless physicians are you all.
Oh that you would keep silent,
and it would be your wisdom!
Hear now my argument
and listen to the pleadings of my lips.
Will you speak falsely for God
and speak deceitfully for him?
Will you show partiality toward him?
Will you plead the case for God?
Will it be well with you when he searches you out?
Or can you deceive him, as one deceives a man?
He will surely rebuke you
if in secret you show partiality.
Will not his majesty terrify you,
and the dread of him fall upon you?
Your maxims are proverbs of ashes;
your defenses are defenses of clay.
(Job 13:1-12 ESV)
12/20/2011
12/14/2011
Armstrong, Folds, and Jobs
I'm trying to understand.
Lance Armstrong, Ben Folds, and Steve Jobs have indirectly, but strongly, influenced and inspired my life. I respect them for their achievements, work ethic, creativity, and contributions. However, all three of these men are either agnostic or ambivalent about God. How is that possible?
Clearly God is using these guys, and others like them, in amazing ways. I don't believe for a second that any of them could do what they do or have done without the power of the Holy Spirit. And yet, none of them acknowledge God in their life. In fact, mostly because of their upbringing and personal experience, sometimes they are hostile when discussing their creator.
And yet God uses them to inspire and move others to be great in their own lives without recognizing the source of the greatness, or the purpose of the life lived. I don't get it. I also don't understand why God doesn't promote believers into similar positions of influence. As much as I hate the Broncos, I absolutely love what Tim Tebow brings to the field of professional football. But Tebow seems to be the exception.
I understand that there is the world and there is God's Kingdom and those are two different but not mutually exclusive places. I just wonder what the world of Armstrong, Folds, and Jobs would be like if Jesus sat on their throne. Would their focus turn away from their own accomplishment and thereby make them less great achievers? Or would a proper focus in their lives propel them beyond what they achieved without asking God for direction? And how would the world be better?
I want God to use me in great ways. I know that I am uniquely created for a purpose, to love God. Also to spread his love to others and to be open to his direction and path as I navigate through my life. I wonder what it would be like to be as influential as one of my heros. I suppose I am in smaller, more personal ways with the people who I encounter daily. I still wonder.
I wonder too what happens to those who God loves but who don't love God back. What do they decide when the day of reckoning comes? I can't imagine anyone rejecting Jesus face to face. But if one doesn't invite Jesus into his or her life while living, will death really change their attitudes? And how would you like to be the person who realizes too late that you really weren't the one in the driver's seat of your life; that all our your "accomplishments" were really nothing without God?
Explain that.
Lance Armstrong, Ben Folds, and Steve Jobs have indirectly, but strongly, influenced and inspired my life. I respect them for their achievements, work ethic, creativity, and contributions. However, all three of these men are either agnostic or ambivalent about God. How is that possible?
Clearly God is using these guys, and others like them, in amazing ways. I don't believe for a second that any of them could do what they do or have done without the power of the Holy Spirit. And yet, none of them acknowledge God in their life. In fact, mostly because of their upbringing and personal experience, sometimes they are hostile when discussing their creator.
And yet God uses them to inspire and move others to be great in their own lives without recognizing the source of the greatness, or the purpose of the life lived. I don't get it. I also don't understand why God doesn't promote believers into similar positions of influence. As much as I hate the Broncos, I absolutely love what Tim Tebow brings to the field of professional football. But Tebow seems to be the exception.
I understand that there is the world and there is God's Kingdom and those are two different but not mutually exclusive places. I just wonder what the world of Armstrong, Folds, and Jobs would be like if Jesus sat on their throne. Would their focus turn away from their own accomplishment and thereby make them less great achievers? Or would a proper focus in their lives propel them beyond what they achieved without asking God for direction? And how would the world be better?
I want God to use me in great ways. I know that I am uniquely created for a purpose, to love God. Also to spread his love to others and to be open to his direction and path as I navigate through my life. I wonder what it would be like to be as influential as one of my heros. I suppose I am in smaller, more personal ways with the people who I encounter daily. I still wonder.
I wonder too what happens to those who God loves but who don't love God back. What do they decide when the day of reckoning comes? I can't imagine anyone rejecting Jesus face to face. But if one doesn't invite Jesus into his or her life while living, will death really change their attitudes? And how would you like to be the person who realizes too late that you really weren't the one in the driver's seat of your life; that all our your "accomplishments" were really nothing without God?
Explain that.
12/10/2011
2 December Talks
I'm teaching the youth group these next two Sundays preceding Christmas. We're between books in the Bible so I'm being given some freedom. I selected two short stories from my younger days that while not explicitly biblical, do have biblical themes and connections.
This Sunday I will share Dr. Seuss' Bartholomew and the Oobleck. The King of Didd has decided that he is tired of the four things that come down from the sky, and so he orders his royal magicians to create something new to descend from the heavens. The next morning green globs of goo begin to fall and create a sticky mess for everyone in his kingdom. Only Bartholomew, his page, has the good sense to try to warn the kingdom; but he has little success. Finally Bartholomew confronts the King and shames him into repentance. Once the King announces that he is sorry, the oobleck quickly dries up and disappears. I am connecting the story to Pslam 51. King David had similar problems with wanting to live life his way, and not God's way. David paid a heavy price, as did his kingdom. The lessons closes on David's words, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me." Excellent advice at Christmas time.
Next Sunday I will read Tolstoy's Where Love is God Is. I first read this short story in Bill Bennet's Book of Virtures. I often read it to my high school classes at the beginning of the year. Martin Avedeitch is a cobbler who wants to be closer to God. One day he has a handful of encounters with strangers passing by his shoe shop. In each case Martin has the opportunity to help someone in need. Later as Martin reflects on his efforts to help others, he reads Luke 6:27-31, Luke 7:41-50, and finally Matthew 25:35-40. Jesus' words, "As you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me." This hits me right in the chest. I often wonder while performing a random (or not so random) act of kindness who it is in fact that I am serving. For all I know Jesus himself could be that homeless guy on the street corner, or the elderly grandma in the Circle K.
I hope that the youth group gets as much out of these two stories as I did when I was first introduced to them. I pray that God will use me to make a connection to their hearts that clearly defines Christmas and that miracle that is God's love for us.
This Sunday I will share Dr. Seuss' Bartholomew and the Oobleck. The King of Didd has decided that he is tired of the four things that come down from the sky, and so he orders his royal magicians to create something new to descend from the heavens. The next morning green globs of goo begin to fall and create a sticky mess for everyone in his kingdom. Only Bartholomew, his page, has the good sense to try to warn the kingdom; but he has little success. Finally Bartholomew confronts the King and shames him into repentance. Once the King announces that he is sorry, the oobleck quickly dries up and disappears. I am connecting the story to Pslam 51. King David had similar problems with wanting to live life his way, and not God's way. David paid a heavy price, as did his kingdom. The lessons closes on David's words, "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me." Excellent advice at Christmas time.
Next Sunday I will read Tolstoy's Where Love is God Is. I first read this short story in Bill Bennet's Book of Virtures. I often read it to my high school classes at the beginning of the year. Martin Avedeitch is a cobbler who wants to be closer to God. One day he has a handful of encounters with strangers passing by his shoe shop. In each case Martin has the opportunity to help someone in need. Later as Martin reflects on his efforts to help others, he reads Luke 6:27-31, Luke 7:41-50, and finally Matthew 25:35-40. Jesus' words, "As you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me." This hits me right in the chest. I often wonder while performing a random (or not so random) act of kindness who it is in fact that I am serving. For all I know Jesus himself could be that homeless guy on the street corner, or the elderly grandma in the Circle K.
I hope that the youth group gets as much out of these two stories as I did when I was first introduced to them. I pray that God will use me to make a connection to their hearts that clearly defines Christmas and that miracle that is God's love for us.
11/27/2011
God Wants Us; We Need God
God spoke the universe into existence so that he could have a relationship with you and I. We were all created uniquely with a single uniting purpose: to be in a loving relationship with God. Everything you see around you is there to support this goal. Jesus is the tangible embodiment of God that we can understand in human terms. The Holy Spirit is our friend who is with us always to guide the way. But God does not demand this relationship of us. He patiently waits for us as we live out our lives. We are to come to him in our own time by our own freewill. The Father is always there, drawing us closer to him daily as he molds and shapes us. God wants us.
Because God gives us the space to grow we sometimes lose sight of our need for God. Especially when we experience success that we do not attribute to him. Giving God the credit does not come naturally to our sinful selves, particularly in the culture we presently live in. And when we fail, which we ultimately will, it can be difficult to repent. But repent we must. We need God far more than God needs us. When God created us he left a void in our souls that only God himself can fill. God is waiting to fill that space with an intimate personal relationship with him built on trust and love. We need to seek a relationship with Jesus to reach the ultimate self-awareness. We need God.
Bread & Wine
I was wrong, everybody needs someone, to hold on
Take my hand, I’ve been a lonesome man, took a while to understand
There's some things we can’t live without,
A man’s so prone to doubt,
Faithful are the wounds from friends.
So give it just a little time,
Share some bread and wine
Weave your heart into mine,
My friend
-Josh Garrels
Proverbs 27:4-6
Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
but who can stand before jealousy?
Better is open rebuke
than hidden love.
Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
Take my hand, I’ve been a lonesome man, took a while to understand
There's some things we can’t live without,
A man’s so prone to doubt,
Faithful are the wounds from friends.
So give it just a little time,
Share some bread and wine
Weave your heart into mine,
My friend
-Josh Garrels
Proverbs 27:4-6
Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
but who can stand before jealousy?
Better is open rebuke
than hidden love.
Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
11/12/2011
Patience Manuscript
Preach with Patience
Value of Patience
Constant Scrutiny
And it’s not easy. Once we step out in faith, whether publically or privately, the attacks come from below. Temptations, misunderstandings, misplaced desires, confusion, exhaustion and other moments of weakness all build up to tear us down. Thankfully, because we stand up for Christ, we are under constant supervision by the Holy Spirit who stands up for us. He empowers us to continue to produce as he battles evil on our behalf.
Sometimes We Forget
11 May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light.
Paul recognized that if he was not patient with himself and his sinfulness that his impatience would result in an even greater sin: the sin of blocking God from doing his will in Paul’s life. God worked through Paul to reach sinners and, “share in the inheritance of the saints of light.” Paul’s inspired words compose much of the New Testament. Just think how different the world would be now if Paul decided to push Jesus away.
Jesus’ Patience
Everybody sins. Everybody. How we react to both our own sin and to the sins of other people is crucial. We can all be guided towards a more meaningful response to our sin by the way those we respect react towards our sin. Ever had a coach who made a big negative deal about a strikeout? Did their reaction motivate you to improve your next at bat? Maybe. How about a coach who took that same failure and turned it into an opportunity to grow (which is exactly what failure is: an opportunity to grow.) The second coach is the more patient coach, and a patient coach, parent, pastor, or leader, will be far more effective then an impatient or negative one.
They Waited
1 Timothy 1:15-16
15 The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. 16 But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life.
Foremost
However, this wretched past allowed God to save Paul as a supreme “example” of grace. An example we follow now. If God can use 1st Century Christian Public Enemy #1 and the experience of Paul’s conversion that occurred two thousand years ago, then He can use us as examples right now, no matter who we are, no matter where we are, no matter what we’ve done.
Perfect Patience
The result of the gospel in Paul’s life was transformation. Isn’t that also true for us? We (men of leadership) serve those around us in the present as Paul did in the past. We are the contemporary “examples” that Paul writes about in verse 16.
Mercy, Salvation, and Patience
Solutions
Third, we should learn from Jesus because he offers us perfect patience. We all need a mentor, someone to help guide our path and give us inspiration; a person we can look up to as an example of how to behave in any given circumstance. Now, we have reached the distinguished point in our lives where people seek our mentorship. Reflect on Colossians 3:12
12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,
We are God’s chosen ones. Of course we need to look to each other for support. Moreover, we should always be looking to Jesus, the ultimate mentor, for guidance, inspiration, motivation, and direction.
Challenge
Example to Others
Important to God
“But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life.”
Salvation Transforms
We are sinfully impatient by nature. We want our faith experience to begin with a life-rattling epiphany, and the subsequent transformation to be immediate and permanent. But it doesn’t work that way. If it did we would abandon Grace by the roadside on our way to Damascus. We would never repent. And there would be no growth in Christ.
Be thankful that salvation is an evolutionary process that repeats a cycle of sin, repentance, forgiveness and growth with a heading toward eternal life. Recognizing that we are in the midst of our own “salvation cycle” should make us more compassionate, broaden our understanding, and yes, our patience with others. Always demonstrate patience and mercy to others because God is using us as examples of faithful men who believe in Jesus for eternal life.
Ripple Effect
Share Your Experiences
21Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.
If we are to forgive our brothers 490 times, then how many times are we to forgive ourselves? Patience with others starts with patience with self. In our daily lives we have multiple opportunities to be an example of how to be patient and forgive other people. So beware. Because we are identified as leaders, how we behave at the workplace, in the marketplace, in the home and in the church is amplified.
Accept Salvation
“The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am foremost.”
In Process
We understand that all of us are in process and that God is in control, shaping and molding us daily, especially we men of faith, like Paul, “of whom I am foremost.” The danger we run into is the mistaken belief that our sin doesn’t stink. Paul’s life example was an extreme one that we thankfully do not share. Paul (as Saul) was directly responsible for blocking (and worse) the unsaved from salvation.
While I am not willing (or even able) to change the way I feel about Jesus, or the way those feelings manifest in me, as a leader of my family, a leader of this church, and a servant to all, it is important that I patiently consider the spiritual conditions of those who are watching my every move. Does that mean I tone it down in their presence, perhaps. Paul continues:
“22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.”
Success
Don’t panic when God’s schedule for your loved ones does not align to your own schedule. We must be as patient with them as God is with us. Remember:
1 Corinthians 7:14
and Isaiah 41:10
and finally, 2 Peter 3:15
In 2 Timothy 4:1-5 Paul implores Timothy, a Christian man
and leader of his church, to preach the word with patience:
1
I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the
living and the dead, and by his appearing and his kingdom: 2 preach the word;
be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. 3
For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having
itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own
passions, 4 and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into
myths. 5 As for you, always be sober-minded, endure suffering, do the work of
an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.
Value of Patience
As Christian men and leaders of our church we are all
examples to those around us who look to us as sober-minded role models. Our
children, our spouses, our friends, our colleagues, (for some) our students or
players, and definitely the members of our church look up to us. They seek
inspiration, guidance, good council, direction, feedback, perspective, and all
the things they lack in themselves. They look to us to fulfill our ministries.
Constant Scrutiny
Consequently, being a leader, especially one who identifies
himself with Christ, is no easy task. We are under constant scrutiny, both
externally and internally, from below and above. When we are not providing for
the needs of those around us, we are preparing to provide for the needs of
those around us. We go to bed at night completely spent, but knowing that we
have done the best we could to serve those we love.
And it’s not easy. Once we step out in faith, whether publically or privately, the attacks come from below. Temptations, misunderstandings, misplaced desires, confusion, exhaustion and other moments of weakness all build up to tear us down. Thankfully, because we stand up for Christ, we are under constant supervision by the Holy Spirit who stands up for us. He empowers us to continue to produce as he battles evil on our behalf.
Sometimes We Forget
The Holy Spirit’s battle against evil is not always visible
to us. As a result, sometimes we forget who we are as men of God and so we
become impatient as we perceive personal failure. Paul understood this feeling.
Paul recognized his failings before his conversion. He knew who he was as Saul,
and who he had become in Christ. Paul drew his strength from the recognition
that it was not Paul, but God himself, who strengthened him with all power,
endurance and patience. Consider Colossians 1:11-12
11 May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious might, for all endurance and patience with joy, 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in light.
Paul recognized that if he was not patient with himself and his sinfulness that his impatience would result in an even greater sin: the sin of blocking God from doing his will in Paul’s life. God worked through Paul to reach sinners and, “share in the inheritance of the saints of light.” Paul’s inspired words compose much of the New Testament. Just think how different the world would be now if Paul decided to push Jesus away.
Jesus’ Patience
But this talk is not about Paul’s patience with himself; it’s
about Jesus’ patience with Paul, and the example that provides us of just how
much God loves us and wants to use us and our experiences in life with Christ
as examples to the others who are watching our lives so closely. See, one of
the most impactful ways we can show others that we love them is by being
patient with them.
Everybody sins. Everybody. How we react to both our own sin and to the sins of other people is crucial. We can all be guided towards a more meaningful response to our sin by the way those we respect react towards our sin. Ever had a coach who made a big negative deal about a strikeout? Did their reaction motivate you to improve your next at bat? Maybe. How about a coach who took that same failure and turned it into an opportunity to grow (which is exactly what failure is: an opportunity to grow.) The second coach is the more patient coach, and a patient coach, parent, pastor, or leader, will be far more effective then an impatient or negative one.
They Waited
Sometimes patience takes a long time. A really long time.
Think of Noah and his family. They waited 40 days for the rain to stop. Abraham
and Sarah waited 25 years for a baby. The Israelites waited 40 years to enter
the Promised Land. Being patient means sometimes we have to wait for those we
love to grow. How long has God waited for you?
1 Timothy 1:15-16
In 1 Timothy 1:15-16
Paul writes:
15 The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. 16 But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life.
Foremost
In verse 15 Paul reminds us of the good news of Jesus Christ:
he came to save us. Paul identifies himself as the “foremost” of sinners. The
word foremost can be defined as, “most prominent in rank, importance, or
position.” Here, Paul is referencing his persecution of the church as Saul,
before his conversion. As Saul he hindered or blocked others from coming to
Jesus.
However, this wretched past allowed God to save Paul as a supreme “example” of grace. An example we follow now. If God can use 1st Century Christian Public Enemy #1 and the experience of Paul’s conversion that occurred two thousand years ago, then He can use us as examples right now, no matter who we are, no matter where we are, no matter what we’ve done.
Perfect Patience
But we have to let him. WE have to allow God to use us. How?
By relying on his perfect patience with us in order to be patient with
ourselves. Then, God can use us to be examples of how he will be patient with
others. If Paul didn’t rely on God’s patience with him, then God would not be
able to use him as an example for others.
The result of the gospel in Paul’s life was transformation. Isn’t that also true for us? We (men of leadership) serve those around us in the present as Paul did in the past. We are the contemporary “examples” that Paul writes about in verse 16.
Mercy, Salvation, and Patience
There are three major spiritual concerns addressed in 1
Timothy 1:15-16: Mercy, Salvation, and Patience. While no man in this room
would presume to think of himself as having the same footprint on the world
that Paul had, the truth is that we are all on equal footing in God’s heart.
Like Paul, we are blessed to receive mercy (forgiveness) from God. Like Paul,
Christ came to save us. And just like Paul Jesus displays his perfect patience
through his love for each of us so that others can be inspired to turn to Jesus
for their own salvation and eternal life.
Solutions
The passage offers us three useful solutions to apply
if we are to be effective leaders and men of God. First, we must look to Jesus,
who judges us faithful, to appoint us to service through his mercy. Remember,
Christ appointed Paul to service knowing his past sins.
We all have our agendas and our areas of strength. But be careful. Look for God’s timing and his appointment to the areas where you focus you attention and your talents. You may see a need that you desire to fill, but your observation alone does not qualify you as the person assigned to meet that need. Psalm 27:14 instructs us:
We all have our agendas and our areas of strength. But be careful. Look for God’s timing and his appointment to the areas where you focus you attention and your talents. You may see a need that you desire to fill, but your observation alone does not qualify you as the person assigned to meet that need. Psalm 27:14 instructs us:
Wait
for the LORD;
be strong, and let your heart take courage;
wait for the LORD!
Second, we must lean on Jesus to support us through his faith and love because he came to save us. It’s all about Jesus, not you and me. We can’t save ourselves,
let alone anyone else. Once we start to freestyle and go out on our own, we
sin. It’s so tempting to wield the power of the gospel for our own battles, but
that is unwise. We are in God’s army; Jesus is not our solider, he is our
commanding officer and, should be our major resource.
Third, we should learn from Jesus because he offers us perfect patience. We all need a mentor, someone to help guide our path and give us inspiration; a person we can look up to as an example of how to behave in any given circumstance. Now, we have reached the distinguished point in our lives where people seek our mentorship. Reflect on Colossians 3:12
12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,
We are God’s chosen ones. Of course we need to look to each other for support. Moreover, we should always be looking to Jesus, the ultimate mentor, for guidance, inspiration, motivation, and direction.
Challenge
Leadership of Oasis Church, I challenge you to be patient
with your selves and your faith in Christ, as your savior is patient with you.
This challenge raises two significant questions: Why is our patience in our
selves and our faith important to God? And, how do we find the strength to be
patient with our selves and our faith?
Example to Others
Clearly our patience with our selves and our faith is important
to God. Why? In verse 16 Paul explains that God uses his perfect patience in us
as an example to others. What does this look like? God demonstrates patience in
us to serve as an example of how we should be patient with our selves and
others. But being patient is time consuming and difficult, and we are not God.
How are we to find within us the ability to be as patient as God? The answer is
found in the previous verse (15): in accepting God’s salvation through Jesus.
Important to God
In verse 16 we understand that our patience with our faith
and ourselves is important to God because: God uses his perfect patience in us
as an example to others so that he can draw others to himself, as he has drawn
us. Paul writes,
“But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life.”
Salvation Transforms
What does it mean to be patient with your faith? Salvation
transformed Paul’s life and salvation transforms our lives. This transformation
process is ongoing. Salvation is both constantly available and constantly
transforming us into the likeness of Jesus Christ.
We are sinfully impatient by nature. We want our faith experience to begin with a life-rattling epiphany, and the subsequent transformation to be immediate and permanent. But it doesn’t work that way. If it did we would abandon Grace by the roadside on our way to Damascus. We would never repent. And there would be no growth in Christ.
Be thankful that salvation is an evolutionary process that repeats a cycle of sin, repentance, forgiveness and growth with a heading toward eternal life. Recognizing that we are in the midst of our own “salvation cycle” should make us more compassionate, broaden our understanding, and yes, our patience with others. Always demonstrate patience and mercy to others because God is using us as examples of faithful men who believe in Jesus for eternal life.
Ripple Effect
The ultimate goal of God using us in this way is a ripple
effect that reaches out to many others. It’s like my theory on kindness. I believe
kindness is not reciprocal, but cyclical. What kind acts I do for others I do
not do for direct reward. Instead, I hope that those kind acts will motivate
the recipients to act kindly to those around them. Eventually, maybe someday, I
will receive kindness from someone whom I have never met, but that was
indirectly affected by a kind act of mine in the past.
As we demonstrate kindness to others as a result of God’s
patience with us, God uses us to draw others closer to eternal life. As those
we inspire grow and mature in Christ, they become eligible to inspire others
within their own realms of influence, and the ripple effect continues until
even the farthest shores are touched.
Share Your Experiences
Paul had his own public audience as well as people close to
him like Timothy with which to share his experiences with a patient savior. We
have our families, our friends, and our colleagues who scrutinized our every
move watching carefully to see just how patient, or “saved,” we actually are.
Not just patient with others, but patient with ourselves.
Personal failure is far more difficult to forgive than the
failure of others. And we fail a lot. How we handle our personal failure and
sin has a HUGE impact on our ability to be patient with the failures of others.
In Matthew 18:21-22 Jesus answers Peter’s question about forgiveness:
21Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.
If we are to forgive our brothers 490 times, then how many times are we to forgive ourselves? Patience with others starts with patience with self. In our daily lives we have multiple opportunities to be an example of how to be patient and forgive other people. So beware. Because we are identified as leaders, how we behave at the workplace, in the marketplace, in the home and in the church is amplified.
Accept Salvation
The preceding verse (15) gives us direct instructions on how
we can be patient in our faith: accept God’s salvation through Jesus. Paul
writes,
“The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am foremost.”
In Process
We understand that all of us are in process and that God is in control, shaping and molding us daily, especially we men of faith, like Paul, “of whom I am foremost.” The danger we run into is the mistaken belief that our sin doesn’t stink. Paul’s life example was an extreme one that we thankfully do not share. Paul (as Saul) was directly responsible for blocking (and worse) the unsaved from salvation.
But just because we don’t share the aroma of Paul’s life/sin
experience, does not mean that our own life/sin experience is not smelly. We
all know exactly how messed up we are, and how we have sinned. Being leaders,
some of our sins are public for all to see. But sin is a private matter between
the individual and God. Your sin is NOT my business, and no Christian has any
right to judge any other person for their sins. Matthew 7:5 states,
“You
hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see
clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.”
These are important words for us to take to heart whenever
we council others. Not that we don’t have authority to provide guidance, but
that we understand the source of our advice is Jesus Christ and our life
experience with him, and not from our “foremost” sinner selves.
Qualified
Of course, our “foremost” experience with Christ makes us
that much more qualified to council our loved ones as God uses us as
“examples.” Use your experiences as you grow and mature in Christ to share
with, witness to, and council others.
To achieve a truly useful leadership role we must pursue a
deep and meaningful relationship with Jesus. The type of relationship that is
developed over a long period of time and includes both study and experience.
Then, We can share with other believers the intimacy of our relationship with
Jesus.
Effective Role Models
If we are going to be
effective role models with Paul, we must be patient with our faith as Christ is
patient with us. If we are to be used by God in our marriages, in our homes,
and in our church, we must exercise patience with others and ourselves as God
has demonstrated patience with us.
Opportunities
The opportunities for leaders
to win the unsaved for Christ and share the blessings of the gospel abound. How
we handle these opportunities is important. The way we patiently live out our
faith affects those around us, sometimes in ways that we do not calculate.
Very recently, I was formally
introduced to a member of our church who recognized me as, “the guy rockin’ it
down front.” Later the same day a member of my family told me privately that
the way I worship God during worship time in church, with my hands raised, and
tears in my eyes, made them uncomfortable. They are at a different place in
their relationship with Jesus than I am, and they don’t understand my reaction.
While on the one hand they are curious, on they other hand they feel
disconnected from me. This is not good. In 1 Corinthians 9, Paul writes:
“19 For though
I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more
of them.”
While I am not willing (or even able) to change the way I feel about Jesus, or the way those feelings manifest in me, as a leader of my family, a leader of this church, and a servant to all, it is important that I patiently consider the spiritual conditions of those who are watching my every move. Does that mean I tone it down in their presence, perhaps. Paul continues:
“22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.”
In education we recognize
that teachers must meet students wherever they are in terms of learning level,
and then pull them, push them, and drag them along until the students reach the
educational goals of the standards. The same is true for church leaders,
whether it is Paul, or you and I, when we reach out to those God brings to us.
Success
If we are to be successful
men of leadership, whatever role God assigns us, and useful examples of his
perfect patience in us so that others are inspired to believe in him for
eternal life, we must learn to live within his perfect patience.
Don’t panic when God’s schedule for your loved ones does not align to your own schedule. We must be as patient with them as God is with us. Remember:
1 Corinthians 7:14
“For
the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving
wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be
unclean, but as it is, they are holy.”
and Isaiah 41:10
“fear
not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
be not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
and finally, 2 Peter 3:15
“And
count the patience of our Lord as salvation, just as our beloved brother Paul
also wrote to you according to the wisdom given him.”
11/09/2011
From: Fathered By God
You are the child of a kind, strong, and engaged Father, a Father wise enough to guide you in the Way, generous enough to provide for your journey. His first act of provision happened before you were even born, when he rescued you through the life, death, and resurrection of our elder brother, Jesus of Nazareth. Then he called you to himself-perhaps is calling you even now-to come home to him through faith in Christ. When a man gives his life to Jesus Christ, when he turns as the prodigal son turned for home and is reconciled to the Father, many remarkable things take place. At the core of them is a coming into true sonship.
-John Eldredge
-John Eldredge
10/25/2011
10/24/2011
Steve Jobs and God
If the "Great Steve" struggled to understand the "Great I Am," how are we mere mortals of little brains suppose to comprehend the greatness of our creator?
Steve Jobs biography reveals his struggle with religion, faith in God
Steve Jobs biography reveals his struggle with religion, faith in God
10/17/2011
Big Idea: 1 Timothy 12-16
Jesus Christ came to save you and he will wait patiently for you to turn to him. Be patient with your faith as Christ is patient with you and God will use you in service to others. Your life experience with Christ, all of your life experience, is your testimony to show others that Jesus is as real and active in our lives today, as he was in the time of Paul.
10/15/2011
Christ Our Advocate
1 John 2:1-6
1 My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. 2 He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world. 3 And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. 4 Whoever says "I know him" but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, 5 but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: 6 whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.
1 My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. 2 He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world. 3 And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. 4 Whoever says "I know him" but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, 5 but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: 6 whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.
10/14/2011
Beyond the Blue
Stand on the shores of a site unseen
The substance of this dwells in me
Cause my natural eyes only go skin deep
But the eye’s of my heart anchor the sea
Plumbing the depths to the place in between
The tangible world and the land of a dreams
Because everything ain’t quite it seems
The substance of this dwells in me
Cause my natural eyes only go skin deep
But the eye’s of my heart anchor the sea
Plumbing the depths to the place in between
The tangible world and the land of a dreams
Because everything ain’t quite it seems
There’s more beneath the appearance of things
A beggar could be king within the shadows,
Of a wing
And wisdom will honor everyone who will learn
To listen, to love, and to pray and discern
And to do the right thing even when it burns
And to live in the light through treacherous turns
A man is weak, but the spirit yearns
To keep on course from the bow to the stearn
And throw overboard every selfish concern
That tries to work for what can’t be earned
Sometimes the only way to return is to go,
Where the winds will take you
And to let go, of all, you cannot hold onto
For the hope, beyond,the blue
-Josh Garrels
A beggar could be king within the shadows,
Of a wing
And wisdom will honor everyone who will learn
To listen, to love, and to pray and discern
And to do the right thing even when it burns
And to live in the light through treacherous turns
A man is weak, but the spirit yearns
To keep on course from the bow to the stearn
And throw overboard every selfish concern
That tries to work for what can’t be earned
Sometimes the only way to return is to go,
Where the winds will take you
And to let go, of all, you cannot hold onto
For the hope, beyond,the blue
-Josh Garrels
10/13/2011
Don't Carry It All
A there a wreath of trillium and ivy
Laid upon the body of a boy
Lazy will the loam come from its hiding
And return this quiet searcher to the soil
So raise a glass to turnings of the season
And watch it as it arcs towards the sun
And you must bear your neighbor's burden within reason
And your labors will be born when all is done
And nobody, nobody knows
Let the yoke fall from our shoulders,
Don't carry it all, don't carry it all
We are all our hands and holders
Beneath this bold and brilliant sun
And this I swear to all!
-The Decemberists
Laid upon the body of a boy
Lazy will the loam come from its hiding
And return this quiet searcher to the soil
So raise a glass to turnings of the season
And watch it as it arcs towards the sun
And you must bear your neighbor's burden within reason
And your labors will be born when all is done
And nobody, nobody knows
Let the yoke fall from our shoulders,
Don't carry it all, don't carry it all
We are all our hands and holders
Beneath this bold and brilliant sun
And this I swear to all!
-The Decemberists
10/12/2011
1 Timothy 1:12-16
Christ Jesus Came to Save Sinners
12 I thank him who has given me strength, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he judged me faithful, appointing me to his service, 13 though formerly I was a blasphemer, persecutor, and insolent opponent. But I received mercy because I had acted ignorantly in unbelief, 14 and the grace of our Lord overflowed for me with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. 15 The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus fame into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. 16 But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life. 17 To the King of the ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.
12 I thank him who has given me strength, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he judged me faithful, appointing me to his service, 13 though formerly I was a blasphemer, persecutor, and insolent opponent. But I received mercy because I had acted ignorantly in unbelief, 14 and the grace of our Lord overflowed for me with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. 15 The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus fame into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. 16 But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display his perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in him for eternal life. 17 To the King of the ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.
A Little Seed
But God can restrain the madness of a fool
He can bring His truth through the mouth of a mule
You can move an mountain without any tools
It just takes the faith of a little seed
to make a way through what might seem to be
Impossibility,
And the ability will match the occasion
The outcome will defy explanation
-Josh Garrels
He can bring His truth through the mouth of a mule
You can move an mountain without any tools
It just takes the faith of a little seed
to make a way through what might seem to be
Impossibility,
And the ability will match the occasion
The outcome will defy explanation
-Josh Garrels
10/11/2011
Omaha
Start tearing the old man down
Run past the heather and down to the old road
Start turning the grain into the ground
Roll a new leaf over
In the middle of the night,
there's an old man treading around in the gathered rain
Well mister, if you're going to walk on water Could you drop a line my way?
-Counting CrowsGod's Provision
Philippians 4:1-13
10 I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. 11 Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. 12 I
know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every
circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. 13 I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
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